Category: Membership

  • Sophisticated, Single, and Curious? A Note From Ann

    A Personal Invitation to Single Women Curious About The Group. I remember vividly the nervous excitement I felt just over ten years ago, stepping into the Black Tie & Lingerie Ball, held over a magical New Year’s weekend at the Ritz Carlton. Picture this: gowns and tuxedos, elegant smiles, and an intimate performance by The Wailers (yes, those […]

    • March 21, 2025
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    • LGBTQ+
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  • The League of Extraordinary People Answers the Call

    In our last newsletter, we put out a call—seeking the expertise of our members to help shape the future of The Resort. The response has been nothing short of extraordinary. We have been contacted by architects, landscape architects, commercial designers, interior decorators, civil and structural engineers, and renewable energy experts—all with remarkable credentials and decades […]

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  • Protecting Privacy and Upholding Discretion

    For us at The Group, privacy and discretion are the foundation of the trust that binds our exclusive community together. Our members and guests join us with the expectation of a secure, respectful, and private environment. Upholding these principles is not just a priority—it is our commitment. Violations of privacy or discretion are taken seriously […]

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  • Why Cash ≠ Class & What to Expect at The Group’s Events

    At The Group, we pride ourselves on providing an environment beyond luxury and exclusivity. It’s not just about the high-end venues, exceptional entertainment, or the privacy and discretion our members enjoy—it’s also about the character and behavior of those who join us. We’ve learned over the years that cash does not equal class. While some […]

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  • Why You Will Never Be Pitched by The Group

    In a world where we are constantly bombarded by sales pitches—whether in our inboxes, social media feeds, or even during what should be relaxing experiences—it’s no surprise that they turn most people off. No matter how polished or well-intentioned, a sales pitch often feels intrusive. It assumes too much and leaves little room for genuine curiosity or personal […]

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  • What ever happened to “Do You Know George?”

    A Journey from Exclusive Parties to an International Community. In early 2005, a couple from Connecticut coined a seemingly innocuous phrase: “Do you know George?” It wasn’t a casual inquiry about a neighbor or a work colleague. Instead, it was a subtle yet effective code used to identify other professionals who might be open to […]

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  • Editorial Continued: Best of Breed

    The Art of Curating the Perfect Gathering. At The Group, our commitment to creating an atmosphere of mutual respect and authentic connection extends deeply into our vetting process, particularly during our “Just For Dinner,” “Jackets Required,” and “Stiletto Social” gatherings. These one-night dinners and parties are not just about enjoying a meal or a night […]

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  • Understanding The Resort’s Membership Tiers

    At The Resort, we offer a variety of membership tiers to suit our guests’ diverse needs and preferences. Each membership level is designed to provide a unique blend of privileges and services, ensuring that every member enjoys their time at the resort to the fullest. Whether you’re a frequent visitor or seeking exclusive access, there’s […]

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  • Editorial: The Velvet Rope Divides

    The Essence of Equality in Hospitality. In the ever-evolving world of luxury hospitality and exclusive gatherings, one might assume that higher financial commitment naturally warrants a superior experience. However, at The Group, we operate on a different set of values that transcend mere economic status. When we gather for a dinner, a party, a weekend […]

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  • Unlocking the Path to Membership

    At The Group, exclusivity and discretion are the hallmarks of our community. We are a private collective of like-minded professionals who value privacy, quality, and meaningful connections. For those who aspire to join The Group, there’s a unique path to membership that begins with our one-night events: Just For Dinner, Jackets Required, and Stiletto Social. […]

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  • The Group App – Version 1.30

    We are excited to announce the release of Version 1.30 of The Group’s app, which now features an enhanced messaging experience with push notifications. This update is designed to help our members stay connected and respond to messages more promptly, ensuring smoother communication within our exclusive community. What Are Push Notifications? Push notifications are real-time […]

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  • The Group’s Weekend Events: Is the Price Worth the Hype?

    Another guest blog by Nicolas, a Full Member of The Group. After I wrote my first blog for the group on why you shouldn’t judge the group by your Just for Dinner experience, I got the bug to do a bit more writing about some other aspects of Group membership that I think will help […]

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  • Introducing Version 1.17 of The Group’s Private App: Elevating the Member Experience in Space

    In the ever-evolving landscape of digital platforms, The Group remains committed to providing its members with cutting-edge technology and seamless user experiences. On Monday, February 5th, we unveiled Version 1.17 of The Group’s private app for Apple iOS, marking a significant milestone in our ongoing efforts to enhance connectivity and convenience for our members. One […]

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  • Unveiling Just For Dinner: A Prelude to The Group’s Exclusive Experiences

    In the sophisticated realm of The Group, connections are forged with intention and purpose. Just For Dinner, a unique offering stands as a testament to this philosophy. Contrary to common misconception, it is not a traditional Group event but rather an exclusive opportunity for professional singles, couples, and throuples in the lifestyle to come together. […]

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  • The Art of Connection: The Intricate Vetting Process at The Group

    In the exclusive world of The Group, a connection is not merely a chance encounter but a carefully curated experience. The vetting process, a sophisticated journey that begins with an invitation request and culminates in the coveted Full Membership status, reflects the commitment to creating a community of like-minded individuals. Join us as we unravel […]

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  • Single Men in the Lifestyle: Challenges and Opportunities when Navigating the Community

    The lifestyle community, often associated with consensual non-monogamy and open relationships, is a dynamic and evolving space that welcomes diversity. However, for single men seeking entry into this vibrant world, there are challenges to be faced, both in public events and private gatherings. The hurdles faced by single men in the lifestyle and how exclusive […]

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  • Nurturing Compersion: The Crucial Role of Choosing the Right Environment for Open Relationships

    The journey toward opening your relationship is a deeply personal and transformative experience, requiring careful consideration, communication, and an environment conducive to growth. Selecting the right setting for exploration can not only strengthen the bond between partners but also lead to a profound state of compersion—a term used to describe the joy and happiness experienced […]

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  • Lifestyle Parties: Elevating the Experience of Lifestyle Clubs and Unveiling The Group’s Exclusive Lifestyle Community

    In the quest for unforgettable lifestyle experiences, discerning individuals often seek the pinnacle of sophistication and exclusivity. Enter The Group, a trailblazer in the world of lifestyle clubs, renowned for curating high-end dinners, lavish parties, luxury weekend events, and international expeditions that stand as the epitome of refinement. This post will explore why The Group’s […]

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  • Embracing Empowerment: Women’s Experiences in The Group

    In the realm of exclusive social clubs, The Group stands out as a beacon of empowerment and liberation for women exploring their sensuality and desires. Whether single or part of a couple or throuple, women find themselves welcomed into a luxurious environment where they can freely express themselves without judgment or inhibition. This inclusivity extends […]

    • December 9, 2023
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    • LGBTQ+
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  • Open Relationships: Why The Group is a Safe Haven for Professional Couples, Throuples, and Single Women Exploring This Dynamic

    In a world that celebrates diversity and encourages individuals to explore their desires and relationships, The Group stands out as a safe haven for professional couples, thouples and single women looking to venture into the realm of open relationships. As an exclusive adult lifestyle club, The Group offers a unique and secure environment where like-minded […]

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  • The History of The Group: From Luxury Lifestyle Weekends to Private Venues and a Members-Only Resort – Part 3

    Chapter Three: Resilience and Evolution By 2019, at the peak of its social calendar, hosting international events and over 80 dinners annually, the abrupt halt imposed by the Covid-19 pandemic forced The Group to reevaluate, adapt, and ultimately emerge stronger than ever. The Covid Interruption: A Halt and a Pause The Group, known for its […]

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  • The History of The Group: From One-Night Swinger Parties to Luxury Lifestyle Weekends – Part 2

    In the rich tapestry of The Group’s history, the year 2015 emerged as a transformative chapter, introducing a shift that would redefine the community’s approach to connections and exclusivity. In that pivotal year, The Group made the two strategic decisions to cease accepting open invitation requests for its luxury weekend events, introducing the innovative Just […]

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  • The History of The Group: From One-Night Swinger Parties to Luxury Lifestyle Weekends – Part 1

    Prologue: The Birth and Evolution. In the vibrant tapestry of The Group’s history, the tale unfolds from its humble origins in 2005. What began as a discreet one-night party held in a historic manse located across from the New York State Capitol quickly became a pivotal moment in the evolution of lifestyle gatherings. Guests themselves […]

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  • Honoring Trust and Transparency: The Group’s Stance on Infidelity and the Dynamics of “Hall Pass” Relationships

    In the enchanting world of The Group, where connections are forged and relationships are nurtured, one foundational principle reigns supreme: trust. Central to The Group’s ethos is the unwavering commitment to fostering an environment of honesty, respect, and transparency. This commitment extends not only to the interactions between consenting adults but also to the sanctity […]

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  • Quality, Respect, and Diversity: Our Approach to the Adult Swinger Lifestyle

    In the Adult Swinger Lifestyle world, finding a community that values quality over quantity, prioritizes respect and consent, and attracts professional couples, throuples, and singles can be a game-changer. At The Group, we’ve taken a unique approach to creating an inclusive, safe, and thriving community for those exploring open relationships. In this article, we’ll delve […]

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