A Look Back at Legacy Platforms and The Group’s Approach
In the world of ethical non-monogamy (ENM), polyamory, and open relationships, technology has played a pivotal role in connecting like-minded people. One of the most popular modern platforms is Feeld, a mobile app designed to cater to individuals and couples exploring alternative relationship dynamics. While Feeld has certainly gained widespread appeal with its clean design and Tinder-like interface, it’s hard to ignore what it lacks—namely, a true sense of community.
At its core, Feeld forces its users into the one-to-one, swipe-and-match approach that Tinder popularized. This format, while efficient for some, can feel transactional and isolating, especially for those seeking deeper, more meaningful connections within alternative communities. In many ways, Feeld’s method requires individuals to reach out, develop conversations, and build relationships one at a time. While this may work for casual dating, it can quickly become time-consuming and often fruitless for those seeking a sense of belonging or integration into a larger community.
Before apps like Feeld took center stage, there were robust websites dedicated to the ENM, poly, swinger, fetish, and open communities that offered more than just digital introductions. Initially named 3nder (a derivative of Tinder), they were promptly sued for copyright infringement and changed their name to Feeld. Meanwhile, a wide variety of legacy websites had been fostering online and real-world opportunities for connection for decades, creating a more communal experience for users.
Take SDC.com, for example. This legacy website did everything Feeld tries to do today but with a broader, more inclusive approach. Not only did SDC allow people to meet online, but it also allowed members to join local events, parties, and travel experiences. Furthermore, SDC operates in roughly a dozen languages, giving it a worldwide presence that makes it a go-to platform for people across the globe. Members could connect with individuals and couples not just in their local area but worldwide, forming a truly international community.
The key difference is that platforms like SDC understand that community building requires more than just digital interactions. They recognized the importance of shared experiences, both online and offline, that fostered a sense of trust, inclusion, and long-term connection. It was more than just swiping and matching—it was about creating a real sense of belonging, where people could meet others in person, attend events, and build relationships within a supportive and welcoming environment.
In this arena, The Group stands as a distinct alternative to the transactional nature of platforms like Feeld. While apps focus on individual interactions, The Group is a gathering point for professionals and their peers, offering not just introductions but curated experiences that elevate social interaction. At each of our luxury weekend events, we provide a curated guest list that ensures everyone in attendance shares similar values, aspirations, and goals. These events are not about finding one connection at a time—they are about immersing yourself in a community of like-minded individuals.
The Group’s approach to fostering relationships is deeply rooted in exclusivity and quality. Our members don’t simply attend a dinner or a weekend event—they engage in an elevated social experience. Whether it’s at one of our luxurious gatherings or our soon-to-open members-only resort, attendees can expect an atmosphere of sophistication, trust, and meaningful connection.
At the end of the day, what platforms like Feeld lack is the very thing that The Group excels at: creating a true sense of community. While apps may be convenient for casual encounters, The Group offers something far more valuable—a curated, elevated, and connected experience where you’re not just another profile but a valued community member built on shared experiences.
As the digital landscape for ENM, poly, and open relationships continues to evolve, it’s clear that while apps like Feeld will have their place, they cannot replace the more profound sense of community that legacy platforms and organizations like The Group provide. And for those who genuinely belong, the difference is unmistakable.
