The Art of Curating the Perfect Gathering.
At The Group, our commitment to creating an atmosphere of mutual respect and authentic connection extends deeply into our vetting process, particularly during our “Just For Dinner,” “Jackets Required,” and “Stiletto Social” gatherings. These one-night dinners and parties are not just about enjoying a meal or a night out—they are about ensuring that every participant aligns with the values and expectations that define our community.
First and foremost, we seek individuals who are a good social fit. This means they respect the diverse perspectives and experiences of others and contribute to the collective spirit of camaraderie. We believe in the tenant that “great sex starts between the ears and not the thighs,” emphasizing the importance of intellectual and emotional connections over mere physical attraction. It’s about the energy and mindset one brings to the table—qualities that foster deeper, more meaningful interactions.
Another critical aspect of our vetting process is ensuring that each guest is height and weight proportionate, taking into consideration the natural changes that come with age. We use a standard akin to “Best in Breed”—recognizing that while few of us remain the same weight we were in college, it’s important that within the norms of aging, our guests are within the physical expectations of their peers. This criterion is not about promoting an unrealistic standard of beauty; rather, it’s about ensuring that in our small, intimate gatherings, every guest feels comfortable, confident, and in harmony with the group dynamic.
It’s crucial to understand that our vetting process is not an exercise in exclusivity or elitism. We are not interested in creating a space for the few at the expense of the many. Instead, our goal is to curate experiences that are truly exceptional—intimate affairs where every interaction is meaningful, and every guest leaves with memories they will cherish for years. Unlike a 200-room resort or a 3,000-person cruise ship, our events are designed for a select few, and precisely this selectivity ensures the quality of the experience.
We vet carefully because we want to guarantee that your experience and interactions with other members will be positive, fulfilling, and enriching. By maintaining high standards in both social compatibility and personal presentation, we create an environment where every guest feels valued and every moment spent together is one of genuine connection. In this way, The Group continues to uphold its commitment to delivering the highest level of service and satisfaction, ensuring that our gatherings are not just events but extraordinary experiences.
